Learn to Love Yourself
Think that your grades are too low, so you urge yourself to stay in the library doing endless exercises, which makes yourself exhausted while without any efficiency? Think that you are too short, so you always wear high heels which makes you look better but suffer more? And think that it is too expensive to buy the shining Tiffany silver jewelries that you have long expected, so you are always looking at the shop window when you pass the shop?
All of the above prove that you don’t know how to love yourself.
Everyday, you may find people around you falling in love, passionately in love and disappointed in love affair. You know that if you love a person, you should try your best to accompany him/her, share your feeling with him/her and be honest to him/her. Love may differ in degrees in different situations, but all acts and words that contain love can bring warmth and happiness to your heart.
So you are aware of the importance to love others sincerely and whole-heartedly. But why don’t you learn to love yourself in the first place.
In our daily lives, we often admire others for we see the beauty, intelligence and strength of them, which are all their shining parts. On the contrary, we see our own shortcomings, thus feeling humbled. In fact, everyone is not perfect, and we don’t need to be ashamed of our own beings. But we should try to love ourselves, accept out own drawbacks and try to find out our own shining parts.
And learn to love yourself, so don’t tie yourself down to the endless exercises which prove to be useless, but try to figure out your time efficiently and do something you like during your spare time to relax yourself and regain your strength; learn to love yourself, so take off that pair of high heels and wear a pair of shoes that suit you, thus going further and seeing more; learn to love yourself, so buy something that you have always wanted, such as the shining Tiffany silver jewelry which you have always been looking at when you pass the shop window and which has always been the symbol of fashion and the dreams of people.
Love yourself first, so you are able to love others; make yourself happy first, so you can bring happiness to everyone around you.